Yesterday, August 29, 2011, my nephew Danny, son of my beloved sister Meg Wiedlin, and brother of my amazing niece Gena Inkeles, took his own life.

Daniel Robert Inkeles was born February 13, 1986 in the middle of a huge El Nino storm. Danny grew up in Topanga and Malibu California and spent the last 4 years in Oregon. Danny was a delightful child who loved hiking, surfing, tide pooling and dirt biking. Danny’s biggest passion in life was music. His first band, at age 5, was Dragon Fire, which involved fake instruments and ninja costumes. When Danny turned nine he started playing drums, and began his life as a musician, playing in many bands, including the critically acclaimed band The Hills. His last band was King Ghidorah, which truly highlighted his talents as a drummer. Watching him play music was a joy.

Life’s trials and tribulations became difficult for Danny, but he met some of his greatest friends as he struggled with sobriety and depression. He had many people who loved him and supported him in his efforts to live and love his life. Ultimately, Danny chose to end his life on August 29th, 2011. All who loved him will miss him.

If you have a loved one who is battling with depression and/or drug addiction, try to take the necessary steps to help them but know it’s not always possible to save them.

In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to MusiCares, a non-profit organization that provides critical assistance to music people in time of need. Please donate HERE.